The Space Between Who You Were and Who You Are Becoming
Hey love,
Lately I’ve been sitting with a quiet realisation
not everything that feels uncertain is a problem to solve
Some phases of life are not meant to be fixed
they are meant to be lived through
There are moments where things feel blurred
where direction softens
where the version of you that once felt clear… no longer quite fits
And the instinct is often to rush
to find clarity
to “get back on track”
But what if you are not off track at all
What if this space you are in
this in between, this shedding, this subtle discomfort
is actually part of a deeper reorganisation
In yoga and Ayurveda, we speak about cycles all the time
creation, maintenance, dissolution
We celebrate the beginning
we cling to what feels stable
but we rarely honour the dissolving
And yet, it is dissolution that creates space
for something more aligned to emerge
I’ve noticed in my own life that every time I’ve tried to grip tightly
to who I thought I should be
I felt contracted, tired, slightly out of rhythm
And every time I allowed something to fall away
even when I didn’t know what would come next
there was a quiet expansion
Not dramatic
not instant
but real
There is a kind of intelligence moving through your life
one that doesn’t always follow your timelines
or your plans
But it is not random
It is responsive
it listens
it adjusts
Sometimes what feels like a pause
is actually integration
Sometimes what feels like loss
is refinement
Sometimes what feels like confusion
is simply the old lens no longer working
So if things feel unclear right now
if you are in a space where you can’t quite define what is next
Take a breath
You are not behind
you are not late
you are not missing something
You are in process
And this part matters just as much as the moments where everything makes sense
Maybe instead of asking
“What should I do next?”
you gently ask
“What is naturally falling away?”
“What is asking for more space?”
and
“What feels quietly true, even if I don’t fully understand it yet?”
Let life meet you there
Let things unfold without forcing them into shape too soon
There is a rhythm that is yours
not rushed
not delayed
just… yours
Trust the timing of your life
With love
Margherita 🤍
